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The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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ALA's picture
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Last reply 8/30/2010 - 12:14pm
Replies by: ALA, washoegal, Fen, molly

Sept 2009 I was diagnosed with stage IIB melanoma, 11 mm deep but not ulcerated removed from mid back, margins clean.  SNB was not performed as the doctor assumed lymph node involvement given the depth.  Whole body PET scan and sonogram of suspect lymph nodes at neck and arm pit were clear.  Because my insurance ruled this a pre-existing condition I could not afford the recommended adjuvant interferon therapy and opted for watchful waiting.  Coming up on a year now with no articulable symptoms of recurrence or remote metastases which brings me to the subject.  Is there a recommended progression of follow up tests (from least to most expensive or with the greatest chance of detecting disease) I should be considering at this juncture?  Best wishes to all, Alan.

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Last reply 8/30/2010 - 10:18am

At outset given odds 25% for  5year survival, because location on top of head 4mm+ tumor and numerous satellites

Bill G

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Last reply 8/30/2010 - 12:01am

My husband is 6 weeks into recovery from LND of the groin.  He still can't completely straighten his leg.  He says it feels like his tendon is too short (pulls from behind his knee up to his groin).  Is this normal?  Has anyone else experienced this?  If so about how long until things were back to "normal."

He also says he has a "big section" of the front side of his leg where he feels nothing.  Permanent nerve damage?  Get better over time?

I guess we could wait until his recheck in a couple of weeks to ask the Dr but you all are so kind and helpful that I thought I would go ahead and ask here.

Thanks in advance for any and all responses.

Tracy

wife to Bill, stage IIIc

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Last reply 8/29/2010 - 7:25pm

I can't even believe I'm writing this, but here goes my introduction. I'm 28, female, and just diagnosed with melanoma. It is believed to be localized, but they do have to go back in and remove a larger area around where the mole was. I had another mole tested and it came back as highly abnormal (not malignant as far as they could tell) and something about possibly invasive. The pathologist actually called my doctor because they were so concerned since I'm so young.

I've had the normal sunburns, but I don't use tanning beds (with the exception of a few times before my wedding 6 years ago), and I'm not someone who is always in the sun.

My doctor is talking to a dermantoligst to see how we should approach this.

I'm so scared right now. I also have another issue going on in which I am having a kidney ultrasound today for. It could be nothing or it could be cancer which would be extremely rare for my age, but then again, I now have skin cancer at 28.

I'm hoping to find some comfort and community in this group.

Thanks,

uvagirl06

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There's an update on Jerry on the otbb.  He is making progress.

 

Jackie W

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shaz's picture
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Last reply 8/29/2010 - 10:26am
Replies by: bcforce, Rocklove, vickirs, James from Sydney, Anonymous, molly

Started feeling slight pains in my lower back about 2 months ago and had been feeling slightly nauseous for some time too, explained both away with stress and studying too hard for my final exams. I then started having really bad pains in my shoulder and couldn't sleep at night. Long and short of it (and lots of poking and tests later) I have metastases to my liver, lungs and bones.

For the last 4 years it has been lesions and mets 'just in the skin', I never imagined it would come to this. I've started six rounds of dacarbazine, each round takes place once every three weeks and i've also started a bone strenthening treatment, zometa, which will be given indefinitely.

Anybody have any positive stories about recovery from this extent of mets? i would really love to hear some.... there are so much negative stories out there.

Could you also please advise about the treatment I'm on? Is this enough?

Thank you so much!

 

 

 

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Last reply 8/29/2010 - 10:22am

Hi All,

I've just been diagnosed with Stage IIIa from Sloan Kettering in NYC - I had a mole on my upper left back that came back 1.25mm - they did a wide excision surgery and a sentinal lymph node biopsy. 

 

Here's my path results:

 

DIAGNOSIS:

 

1.  Left upper back wide excision

- cicatrix

-no melanoma seen

 

2.  left axillary sentinel lymph node #1:

- metastatic melanoma in one lymph node

Note:  No extension into extranodal soft tissue is seen

 

3.  sentinel node #2 left axilla

one lymph node, negative for melanoma on levels and immunostains for s100p and melan - a

 

I met with Oncologist who said he will see me on September 27th - he recommended a CT scan which I had this past Saturday and I meet with the surgeon tomorrow to go over the results and to have pre-admission testing done  - He said he will see me back on the 27th of September to discuss further options (wait and see approach, participating in some type of protocol prophylactically (sp?)

I don't know..... everyone I talk to is wondering why am I not put on some type of chemo, or intereferon, or WHATEVER  -  Is it because the 2nd node was clean that it's not a priority???   I just don't know what to think - it's so depressing some things you read on the internet  -  

Can I sleep good tonight before getting my CT results?   HELP!!!   

p.s.  I'm 45 and in great health otherwise

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Hello Has anyone tried this new trial drug

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Anonymous
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Last reply 8/28/2010 - 8:04pm
Replies by: paul, bcl, JoanR, ValinMtl, LizzieWA, Anonymous

My mom has been diagnosed with Stage 3C melanoma (6 lymph nodes affected, one extracapsular extension).  She had surgery, lymph node removal and radiation on the lymphs.  The original site never healed from the surgery (6 mos + ago).  Recently, little black spots started popping up between the original site and the lymph nodes.  At least 18 of them. We learned they are melanoma.  What does this mean for her? 

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Last reply 8/28/2010 - 1:39pm

My husband  has been on Hoffman/Roche BRAF trial at UCLA since early Feb '10. After the first month, we started seeing red "bumps/splotches" that would appear on his arms or legs, they would swell up, be sore and itchy, then disappear a few days later.  Doc said it was a rare side effect of the drug. No worries!  But, since this weekend, those spots have gotten very large and developed blisters on them. Dirk was very uncomfortable.  I emailed the Doc  this morning and he said to stop the drug, has scheduled a CT scan and visit for Wed.  Anyone else experience this??? Just a little worried cause he has had a bad week or two, really tired and in pain.  He says all the "lumps" on and under his skin are hard and barking at him. 

Jan (Dirk's wife)

stage IV,  

WLE in Aug'09 arm and groin lymph nodes

Nov '09 new external mel on right torso 

Dec '09 mets in liver, lungs, kidney, R shoulder bone

laughter is the best medicine

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Nancy's picture
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Last reply 8/28/2010 - 12:50pm
Replies by: Anonymous, Kevin from Atlanta, Nancy, lhaley

Buddy is in rehab now after his fall last Sunday morning at 3AM.  He was in hospital 3 days, transported to rehab center-which is closely  akin to a nursing home to me.  Anyway, his physical therapy is going fine.  He is sitting up now, couldn't before and he's transferrring from bed to wheelchair with effort.

My "now" concern, as opposed my 'now " concern later, =they are all important to me--Buddy's bowels are empacked-there is a large tumor which lays just beside the anus and is making the opening smaller.  We are trying a suposidory this evening.  Is the bowel empackment made worse by the tumore--its about the size of a golf ball-should I see about getting this tumor taken out of there, or try eminta - it's a rather dirty place, and I'll afraid of infection - are some suppostoris better than other? 

For those who have so graciously followed Buddy through this juorney, he had taken the frist 2 doses of IPI in Philadelphia, tolerated well, but those darn old brain mets returned.  He is on steroids now to reduce the swelling of the brain.  He is on 4mg every6 hours.  He is on the IPPI trial, which has stated they would allow only the low dose decatron for their trial.  His scheduled IPPI treatment woud be this coming Tuesday>

Some of the tumors have gotten smaller, but most have gotten larger.  Most of them are truning purple in color.

Can anyone suggust what we could do ?  The melanoma has met to the lungs, the liver and the brain.

Thanks fo all who reply - It;s been a busy week here in Maryland!

Nancy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Last reply 8/28/2010 - 10:49am
Replies by: dian in spokane

Hello everyone. Just an update. I had stereotactic radiation done yesterday, hopefully took care of the met in my brain. As for the ones in my lungs, liver, chest and back, I will be starting IL-2 on monday. Scared? Yes, I'm kind of nervous, with all the possible side effects, but have got my hopes up for the possible help it may bring. Has anyone here had a positive experience with IL-2? Any recommendations or tips I might benefit from? How about nutrition while on it? I've seen the operationsunshield website, but would appreciate any other opinions or stories. Thank you. Oh and on a lighter note, I got married 2 days ago, she looked beautiful, and we're moving into our own place this weekend. It will be nice to arrive to a new home after the hospital stay. :)

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Last reply 8/28/2010 - 10:17am

My husband, Bob thought the song from The Gambler, from Kenny Rogers was appropriate after his doctor's visit on Friday so I will work with him on this one hard as it might be. Betting is all about percentages, so if you are a betting man/woman and the stakes are high it just might be an all or nothing bet for you if your life is involved. This is how it went down for Bob with the melanoma specialist in the Portland area on Friday.

 

Facts:

• Bob has melanoma stage 3, it's been 30 days after surgery

• For most people with stage 3, this gives you odds of 50/50 of getting melanoma again of a more life threatening development within 5 years which turns into stage 4.

• Because of the size of Bob's tumor which was 2-3 inches, which was taken during surgery, his odds have now become 70-30 of getting melanoma again within 5 years and will threaten his life, stage 4.

• Treatment available for Bob:

1. Interferon: treatment for 1 year, makes you sick like flu, 5% works

2. Vaccine: made with protein from Bob's tumor, builds up his immunity so his body recognizes melanoma as an enemy and kills it. Clinical Trial, 2 people on, 1 person off, – NO GUARANTEE

3. Do nothing and wait

 

Reality Check:

The mean probability of death by car accident for United States residents is 1.49%. Source(s) 2005

 

Choices...

So, it was an emotional charged Friday when we met after work, talking about his doctor's appointment. It was hard seeing Bob realize his future in numbers for the first time in these many weeks. As much as I wanted to be there for that doctor's appointment when Bob told me that he had broken down for the first hearing about his uncertain future I knew reality had set in . Still trying to grasp the facts of this disease, the way it works against you fighting to take your life away and everything you have worked for this became no longer impersonal.

It was the first time I didn't know what to say to Bob. So far I have tried to be there for him and try to feel what he must be thinking and feeling but I guess there comes a time when a person has to walk that walk alone. It's a head on collision and I certainly was not ready for it so I know Bob was not either. So, is the glass half empty or is it half full? Which side of the door are we standing in? 70/30 Is this an all or nothing bet?

If you believe in religion you get a free pass and turn it over to a God to share your burden and let it be taken from your shoulders so you can forget about it.

But... in my heart and in my mind it's not that simple. This earth is powerful in its clutches and for those who remain here and we can't help but feel forsaken. Love I feel is a powerful gift and my only hope is that whatever time Bob and I have together our marriage stays strong and true during this trial and that our love brings a brighter light into who are for each other.

Here's my promise to you, Bob. I will try to not take you for granted after today, and to take time out and enjoy our lives in whatever way possible within our means. I am behind you100% and that you can count on. If you had to bet on anything in your life it would be that I love you with all my heart and soul. I will support you in whatever decision you make when it comes to your health care. It is your life we are talking about but it is your "Quality of Life" I am reminding you about too. Selfish as I might get at times I do want you with me but I also want you to be happy here.

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Last reply 8/28/2010 - 8:29am
Replies by: Fen, Janet2

Just wondering if anyone else has encountered these same type of feelings.  Before being diagnosed with Stage 3 Melanoma I moved across the country away from all of my family and friends with my new husband.  Being in a new environment, not feeling quite myself, I have found it so difficult to make friends my age (I'm 29).  I find that many women my age are dealing with such different things like starting their families, etc.  Although I've been NED for a little over a year now, and am finished with my interferon treatments (I did 4 and 1/2 months,) I'm definitely still reeling from everything that I've been through.  Although I believe that I'm quite positive most of the time, I've had a few breakdowns with new friends, and find them running the other way.  Maybe my situation reminds others how fragile life is?  Maybe others don't realize how serious melanoma is and think I'm being a drama queen?  I've never had difficulty making friends before, and now is when I need them the most.  Anyone else experienced anything like this? 

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I wondered if anybody might know how many treatments of chemotherapy one might require before finding out if it is reducing the size of subcutaneous Mets. I have only had one infusion so far and obviously won't know what effect it is having on the tumours in my organs etc until I've had a scan after my second infusion. However, obviously one can one can see subcutaneous mets and I thought others may have seen some signs of them reducing in size after treatment, but didn't know how long this usually takes. Any information would be appreciated.

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