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The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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Last reply 11/6/2010 - 7:25pm

New subscriber looking for anyone who can relate to vulvar melanoma or who has had experience using aldara cream??

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Hello All,

I've attended the past few symposiums presented by the MFNE and found them excellent resources. 

Jerry from Cape Cod.

An Evening with the Experts

A presentation of the latest in melanoma treatment and research

An opportunity for education, discussion & connection for patients,
survivors, families & friends

Tuesday, November 16, 6:30 – 9:00 pm

Dana Farber Cancer Institute
Jimmy Fund Auditorium
35 Binney Street, Boston, MA

F. Stephen Hodi, MD, Clinical Director, Melanoma Program, Dana Farber Cancer Institute
Donald P. Lawrence, MD, Clinical Director, Center for Melanoma, Mass General Hospital
Anand Mohadevan, MD, Radiation Oncology, Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center

    Dana Farber Cancer Institute
    Jimmy Fund Auditorium
    35 Binney Street, Boston, MA

Melanoma Foundation of New England at (978) 371-5613 or

Free Admission, Refreshments, Free Parking (in the Smith Building at 1 Jimmy Fund Way)

It's about kickin' Melanoma's butt! "Meh. Get on with it. Do not feed rabid monkeys. To fear is one thing. To let fear grab you by the tail and swing you around is another." in memory of NicOz

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Last reply 11/9/2010 - 9:31pm

So sad to be joining this club...

I have been reading the posts for weeks now, but just finally joining.  So, here's the story.  I am a 37 yr old happily-married mom of 2 toddlers.   The Melanoma bomb hit our lives almost 2 months ago.  I was diagnosed in August w/ Melanoma Stage 1C (1.2mm with mitosis) on my arm and had the WLE a month ago w/ Sentinal Node Biopsy in New York.  Lymph nodes were not involved... thank God.  Then, my Melanoma team  tells me that I should be "focused on survival" for the next 2-3 yrs & need to be monitored for 6-10 yrs due to the mitosis.  WHAAAA?!?!?!?!?!  Needless to say, I almost fell off my chair!!!  I thought my news of lymph nodes being clear was starting to sound pretty good.... well, I don't mean "good" but you know, not "survival" discussions.  Then they told me that we should not pursue having another child (as were in the midst of trying & really hoping for). 

Sounds pretty scary & even scarier when I go online to research more. Not sure what to think.... or which part of this should be keeping me up at night.  Also, I got a second opinion from another Mela specialist & he said Mitosis is only relevant if primary is less than 1mm & you are determining whether or not to do SNB.  Have you heard this?  I have mitosis, which one group seems really concerned about in terms of risk for recurrence.  Other doc said no longer relevant.  What have you heard?  Should I really be "focused on survival" and also halt the baby plans? 

Thank you!  You all seem like an amazing group of people -sorry we have to meet this way!  :)

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  Had my checkup, PET/CT scans yesterday......I found three new sub q's last week, and showed them to my oncology surgeon and melanoma oncologist. I am not a good surgical candidate given my poorly healing leg post my ILP 14 months ago and unhealed wider excision wound from 5 months ago, that requires narcotic meds for the pain around the clock (in fact I am switching to methadone, oxcy's, effexor, and increase my gabapentin to three times a day (900 mg three times a day, currently on 900mg 2 times a day). So hopefully the wound will not preclude me from participating in the trial....supposed to start 11/17 or 11/18.

Vermont_Donna, stage 3a

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Last reply 11/4/2010 - 7:39pm
Replies by: glewis923, ginakay, Anonymous

Anyone on E7080 w/TMZ ?

Though I walk through valley of the shadow of death HE is with me.

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I noticed that Lauren has not posted for a long time. I pray Jenna is doing well. Anyone heard from Lauren???

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Last reply 11/4/2010 - 6:29pm
Replies by: glewis923

I am concerned we have not from Kevin. Anyone know how he is doing, please post an update. I was so sorry to read his post about IL2.

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Last reply 11/6/2010 - 7:19am
Replies by: Springbok, washoegal, Janner, Anonymous

I came across a couple of articles on the Web that maintain that biopsys spread cancer.

This may be total quackery, but the argument goes that the body builds walls around concentrations of cancer cells to contain them, but that these walls become breached, and the cancer cells escape, when a biopsy is performed.

I am scheduled for a SLN  in a day or two , and these articles have given me pause for thought.  Any comments?

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Last reply 11/7/2010 - 11:23am
Replies by: jim Breitfeller, Nebr78, Jackie W, lhaley, Anonymous

I am back again.  Does anyone know how to get ipilimumab in Nebraska?  They have quit treating me as they think the chemos that will do any good will be too hard on the heart. I have had heart disease for 40+ yrs. and heart is not in good shape.  Maybe this ipil will do the job. Tumors are growing. Maybe the side effects of ipili will not affect my heart.  The FDA is taking a long time in approving it, it seems. Thanks.

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Last reply 11/5/2010 - 7:43pm

Tuesday we found out that Eric has a 3CM Vascular Tumor in the brain.  Eric's Oncologist in Dayton and in Pittsburgh both recommeded surgery because the tumor is new since September 8th's scan, it's vascular, and the size.  So we met with a neurosurgeon today and she said that she wants to do a PET and if his cancer has spread out from his leg and brain then she does not recommend treating the brain tumor.  She said she's never removed a Melanoma vascular tumor in the brain and that they were rare.  She said that he would never regain his peripheral vision and may even lose all his vision on the right.  He will never drive again.  She also said that she is concerned about the risk of infection because the vasular tumors on his leg are seeping and she said that infection can spread to the brain easily when you are doing brain surgery.

Has anyone ever had surgery on a Vascular Brain Tumor.  I am so worried and feel terribly helpless.

JillNEric in OH

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Last reply 11/5/2010 - 8:58pm

My father started taking the Ipi Trial in August.  After his 4th infusion he had unbearable itching and a rash all over his body.  His local doctor put him on some type of steroid to help with that problem.  Of course his local doctor prescribed only what MD Andersen approved of.(He is a patient there).  His last treatment was Oct. 8th since then he has symptoms of the itching, rash, white patches on skin, and now for the last 2 weeks he has been complaining of bad pain in his back, hip, & legs.  A lot of the pain medication has not really helped.  Could anybody on this board that has taken ipi or is on ipi now please shed some light on what kind of symptoms you have and how long can we expect the side effects to linger?  (Steroids have helped rash & itching)

Thanks so much!

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Last reply 11/4/2010 - 9:42pm
Replies by: King, Linda/Kentucky, lhaley

I'm about ten daysinto the carbo taxol temodar trial I'm participating in at UNM Cancer Research Center and thought I would share how it's going in case anyone else is possibly going to do this type of study. Stage IV after two brain mets found 6/2010 (craniotomy & gamma knife) followed by an adrenal tumor showing up on scans 9/2010.

I've been lucky to have had zero nausea but they had me on a very precise supportive protocol for that. I'm losing weight but not for lack of eating! The biggest problem I'm having with food is that my taste is changing and a lot of things don't taste right. I'm making sure to keep a lot of quick and easy foods on hand so that I can eat constant small snacks through the day. Creamy soups are really great for that and still taste good.

The worst so far was day 4 and 5 of oral temodar which they warned me would cause bone and joint pain. I've never been one to get viruses or the flu so I wasn't prepared for the bone deep grating pain mostly in my hips and legs. As they also told me, it only lasted about 48 hours which helped me to get through it. Hot bathes and staying warm helped too. Now I'm dealing with neuorpathy which can be pretty intense too. For some reason it is mostly in the left side of my body and follows the major nerve meridians down my left leg. The only thing that really seems to help when it gets bad is the oxycodone I was prescribed for the intense pain I had after the adrenal biopsy.

We live at nearly 8,000' altitude so I'm also starting to feel the affects on my bone marrow with fatigue and shortness of breath. I guess it's a good thing I'm adapted to a high altitude! They told me the low point on my blood counts would occur around day 15, November 8th, so I'm already being very careful about staying away from public places and washing my hands constantly. My hair is due to start falling out then too so I'm taking a preemptive strike and a friend is coming over later this week to shear me!

So I guess my main message for anyone else is - don't be afraid! It is all very manageable. I have good friends who are coming and helping as needed but I'm still going out and feeding 6 horses every day, taking care of my house and dogs, and my husband is being a dear by helping with the cooking etc. If there were something I wish I had known about in advance, it is that my emotions would be so fragile and on the surface. I'm a very happy and optomistic person so it's a bit shocking to always be on the edge of tears. Just be prepared to be kind to yourself and for heaven's sake, surround yourself with happy, positive people! I've cut off quite a few people who insist on sharing the 'horrors of chemo' that they have read about on the net and about how many people are dying from melanoma!

Carmon in NM: Stage IIIB 9/2008; Stage IV 6/2010 with brain and adrenal mets; NED since 4/13/2011. It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters. ~ Epictetus

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Last reply 11/4/2010 - 9:44am

This sucks

Nothing like the efficiency of the US government.

Insert Generic Inspirational Motto Here

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Last reply 11/3/2010 - 9:28pm

Hi Everyone,

I am new to the board.  My husband was just diagnosed with Stage IV about a week ago.  He is young (35) so this comes as a huge shock, which I'm sure it is a shock no matter what age.  We were told by the dermatologist and have not seen an oncologist yet.  That appointment is in 2 days.  Basically we were not given much information, and were told to research online.  So far I have not seen much good from what I have read.  We are kind of in the dark and do not know what to expect.  I'm really scared and not sure how to react.  I don't know what to say, what questions to ask, or what to do from here.  I guess I need some advice or encouraging words if anyone has them to give. 

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Last reply 11/4/2010 - 7:49am

Hi everyone, I started my trial with Ipi, no temodor though, on Friday the 29th. Yesterday and today I am noticing my subcutaneous tumors which are large are getting larger and very very soar sometimes throbbing and hot. Is this normal?? Other side effects are just tired, Has anyone else had this?? Need some answers.. Thanks... Jolaina, Michigan

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