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The MPIP is the oldest and largest community of people affected by melanoma hosted through the Melanoma Research Foundation. It is designed to provide support and information to caregivers, patients, family and friends. Once you have been touched by melanoma—either as a patient or as a family member or friend of a patient—you become part of a community. It is not a community anyone joins willingly. But if you must be part of this group, you will find no better place to find the tools you need in your journey with this cancer, and the friends who can make that journey more bearable.

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bri11iance's picture
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Last reply 9/13/2010 - 9:31pm
Replies by: Charlie S

I received an incorrect bill from a local pathology lab and called their large national billing service today.  I was put on hold and - to my delightful surprise - listened to a recording of information about the dangers and prevalence of melanoma and about sun safety.  I was quite impressed with the wide audience this simple strategy will reach and also pleased to be spared from the usual elevator music or sales pitch.

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emilypen's picture
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Last reply 9/16/2010 - 11:28am

Hi all,

So met with the oncologist today and the new CT scan shows very minimal growth on the one tumour they haven't radiated. It's the one they're leaving as is in order to guage how the trial drugs work. Is that normal? Do tumours just slow down sometimes? The radiated areas show scarring but no new cancer anywhere. PET scan results later this week.

All the tests are done, and my husband starts the trial on Wednesday.

Has to spend the 24 hours in the hospital in order to make sure he has no bad reactions to the drug and they'll take his blood every hour to check for dispersion rates.

Our fingers are crossed. I'll keep you posted.





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Charlie S's picture
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Last reply 9/13/2010 - 9:20pm
Replies by: Anonymous, washoegal

There are several hospice locations in Reno and due to HIPPA rules, it is difficult to find her.  Does anyone know which Hospice she is at or her last name?


Charlie S

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Lori C's picture
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Last reply 9/19/2010 - 5:22am
Replies by: Janet2, James from Sydney, Lori C, Anonymous, Jackie W, jag

Will is doing okay - going for 4th chemo next week.  All visible lesions very small, flat, etc.  However, he is SO tired.    He's on cisplatin and taxol.  Is this pretty normal?  Pain is much better.  But I'm worried - of course.  He's just so worn out.

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Will is doing okay - going for 4th chemo next week.  All visible lesions very small, flat, etc.  However, he is SO tired.    He's on cisplatin and taxol.  Is this pretty normal?  Pain is much better.  But I'm worried - of course.  He's just so worn out.

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himynameiskevin's picture
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Last reply 9/19/2010 - 10:32am

Good thoughts, prayers, stories and vibes would be greatly appreciated this week. I hear the second week is worse by far. But I'm ready, I kind of know what to expect as far as the hospital, treatment and side effects go. So hoping to use that to my advantage. Also, my mom flew in last week and she'll be here to keep me company until Wednesday, and a mothers love is, well, to me, is pure and unabashed, and it's great to have her here. I hope all is going well for everyone. Let's keep our heads up. Keep learning and progressing towards positive outcomes. One day at a time. I'll talk to you all soon. -Kevin

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The Melanoma Research Foundation, in conjuction with the H. Lee Moffitt Cancer Research Center in Tampa and the Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston, will host 2 FREE patient education symposia in October. 

"Living with Melanoma:  Science to Survivorship" will be held on:

Saturday, Oct. 16, 2010 at the H. Lee Moffitt Cancer Research Center - Tampa, FL

Friday, Oct. 22, 2010 at the Massachusetts General Hospital - Boston, MA


You can register on our website to attend this free event.  Patients, caregivers, family members, and healthcare providers are invited to attend.

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lovingwifedeb's picture
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Last reply 6/30/2017 - 1:54pm

September 12, 2010


It’s been 7 weeks since the original surgery on his leg/groin area; 2 weeks since his last surgery to fix the lymph channel/fluid leak and infection and it’s the best he has felt since this has all began. It’s a reminder that my husband, Bob didn’t feel sick or in pain when he was first diagnosed with this life threatening disease just before Father’s Day. A lump in his leg was his only warning signal to get checked, the diagnoses of stage 3c melanoma.


My husband and I were sitting in the morning sun having coffee earlier today, a beautiful day in the northwest, when he turns to look at me and says, “just one day at a time, that’s how I will try to take this. Look at this day, it’s gorgeous, take it in will you… what more could I ask for?”


Really? I could give you a list, I thought to myself… the summer vacation we had to cancel because of the surgery you had to have. Halloween decorations, which we do big every fall that take 3 months out of the year are being postponed because we don’t know what to expect because of your treatment or your health? The deck we want to build next summer. New patios added to the house? New flooring downstairs? I mean just where does this list end? We were talking of getting remarried again… planning these things, the timing, our future together? I couldn’t help wonder to myself just where this melanoma road would lead us.

A smile on his face, his blue eyes twinkling at me and I knew his heart was speaking to me. Our lives were being forced to slow down due to his health no matter how much we hated it. No matter how difficult it was for us to deal with, maybe we couldn’t do everything we wanted to, when we wanted to, maybe we had to choose what was important to us.


We both were feeling that time was our enemy now, and needed to find a way to work around it, to adjust. The secret was how… how to look at each day through eyes like a child to be explored and to not take life for granted now. To take one day at a time on a conscious level and try to leave the stress behind. How to live daily and still get the things we needed to get done and not be too greedy? Boy, do I have some personal work to do…


I love you my dear husband.



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Anonymous's picture
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Has anyone heard how Rocco is doing??/ His scans were last week. Hoping for the best for him.

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Kevin from Atlanta's picture
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Last reply 9/13/2010 - 10:24am

I got my scans after taking 4 treatments of Ipi. All of my mets grew, lungs, brain, along the spine and esphogus, intestine ect. Two new ones, one at where the brain and spine meet and thyroid. I will wait six weeks, get new scans to see if I am a late responder. I still do not have a plan B, there really isn't anything out there that I am eligable for or perks my interest. I meet with my reg Onc on Monday. The next six weeks I plan on working on my pain. My knees and overall back give me pain 24/7. I have a hard time taken opiates, Ibpruphen just takes a little edge off. I told the onc office to order bloodwork for the thyroid to see if it out of wack. I might ask for a fine needle aspiration of the thyroid just to get a biopsy since the last biopsy didn't get a great sample. I plan to use for mutation testing.


I must give kudos to Ft Sanders hospital and Thompson cancer center in Knoxville, TN. I got a bone scan, ct scan and brain MRI within 5 hours and the results the next morning.


Professional patient

Stage IV 


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KatyWI's picture
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Last reply 9/14/2010 - 12:45pm
Replies by: Anonymous, jag, killmel, KatyWI, mimi0201, Rocklove, Sharyn, lhaley


My 3-month post-IL-2 PET wasn't what I hoped for - three new itty baby nodules in my butt.  One option my doctor is suggesting is the OncoVex trial.  It's the new phase III trial.  2/3 get OncoVex; 1/3 get subcutaneous GM-CSF in the control arm.  I thought of two questions that I didn't ask tonight, and am hoping somebody out there can give me some interim answers while I wait0for Monday to roll around.  First, does anybody know if the OncoVex trial has a crossover design?  (If I got GM-CSF and progressed, would I get OncoVex?)  Second, while I'm aware of the phase III trial results for adjuvant GM-CSF, I'm not immediately aware of any efficacy data for its use in active stage IV disease.  I have visited the trial page ( and the NCI page ( and cannot find the answers.  Anybody out there know more?



Just keep going!

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himynameiskevin's picture
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Last reply 9/11/2010 - 9:23pm
Replies by: SuzannefromCA, Fen, KatyWI

Hi everyone. I think I'm fully recovered from round one of IL-2, been home for 6 days and I'm feeling good.  Feeling really good actually, I hope that's not a bad thing. I start my second round on Monday and am wondering, if I am fortunate enough to be one of the positive responders to the treatment, what would I expect to see? I was told that I'd probably be waiting for about 3 weeks to know if it's working.  I can't find much information about IL-2 working on people, at least in detail. Do tumors just shrivel and die? I have a good sized cluster on my back and one on my chest about  the size of a lima bean that I can actually see under my skin. The internal ones, I just have to hope for shrinkage. But would I actually be able to see these things physically get smaller? Also, I've heard from some people that tumors could actually swell or enlarge while being defeated. Has anyone heard or experienced this? I plan on asking my doctor these questions next time I see him, but until then, any information from anyone here would be really appreciated and put my sometimes worried mind at ease. Thankyou.

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LampChop's picture
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Last reply 9/16/2010 - 7:36pm

I am newly diagnosed with two excisions and a sentinal lymph node biopsy.  I am Stage III B because of microsatellites.  I have had three opinions on treatments.  One said "vigilant observation" and two others said radiation therapy.  However, one said external beam radiation - 4 weeks / 5 times a week.  And the other said IMRT (aka 3D conformal) radiation which avoids bones and provides less radiation to healthy cells.  It also is a five day treatment.

I'd like to do the IMRT therapy, but have not found any other online resources talking about it with Stage III melanoma to an extremity (mine is on my arm).  I'm just reaching out blindly to anyone on this board to see if anyone has experience with it or if the cancer center I went to is just very proactive in it''s use.

Thank you to anyone who responds.

- Kristin

(PS - my screen name is supposed to be LambChop, but I guess I am tired and just not focused these days.)

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Last reply 9/14/2010 - 10:21pm
Replies by: DonW, caper01, makedoandmend, King, Carver, Anonymous, dian in spokane

Hello all! I've been lurking for the past few days and have been amazed at the strength I have gained from simply reading your stoires, posts, and responses.

I am a 28 y/o M from Long Island, NY that  was just diagnosed this week with ulcerated malignant melanoma originating from a mole on my inner calf.  It got cut off in the ocean about 5 months back and grew back a little strange.  I didn't have it removed until a week and a half ago.  Unfortunately for me the thing was 9 mm...Knowing that the scale stops at 4 I am obviously expecting the worst.  I have a PET scan next week and am definitley feeling that "scanxiety" that others have spoke about.   Just thought I would say hello and see if maybe I could get some insight on what to expect. Am I definitley looking at stage IV or is there any hope of stage III?  Fear and anxiety have been the primary emotions, but some inner strength and willingness to fight has been brought out from some of the stories on this board. 



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Last reply 9/23/2010 - 9:57am

Hi Friends

Any stage 1 and 2's might want to run away right now......this is a bitch and the beast from hell has got a hold of me now and is not letting me go.

I'm checking in . I called Hospice last week, my sister came down, it will be 2 wks ago come this Sunday. Had more surgery to  my left arm, yep it was full of melanoma, had more brain mets, had WBR (3) stopped that after 3 times, burning pain on fire all through the night. CT Scans showing lower lunbar spine is full of melanoma, it spreads out like a horese tail and sends shooting pain down my leg, one tumor is on a eye nerve, I am now completely blind in my right eye  and 'em wearing an eye batch to stopped the double vision so I can see, I can't walk., I'm in a wheel chair &  walker, cant bath myself, blah, blah, blah...this is it. Today is my granddaughter 9th b-day so I wanted to live long enough to be here for that.  Hospice dropped the ball today w/pain meds and are getting their asses jammed....give me drugs NOW. I've asked my sister to posted when I'm your Warrior Angel. Ipi and others are a waste of time for me now cuz the beast is everywhere.


So I'm saying goodbye to all now, you have been more loving and a soruce of stregth for me more than you will ever know. For those of you who can...FIGHT ON & NEVER GIVE UP....I LOVE YOU...SEE YOU ON THE FLIP SIDE. LOVE, SHARON IN RENO, STAGE IV.....going down kicking and screaming with love and lots of DRUGS.

To Thy Own Self Be True & Move Fast When You "Know" You Have To!!

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