My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma in April of this year. We had always planned to have our children close together and now our first is 13 months old and I’m itching to start trying for another to keep them close in age. However, I see the other side of how we have only made it through almost 6 months of treatment. Thankfully no more cancer showed up on the first 3 month scan and my husband has had no side effects from the immunotherapy. Would it be selfish to start trying for another baby now, knowing that he isn’t out of the woods yet? I don’t want to plan our lives according to what may or may not happen with his cancer but also don’t want to be irresponsible. I hope this doesn’t come off the wrong way, but becoming parents has brought us closer together and I feel that it is important to keep living the way we wanted to as long as we can. Does anyone have an experience they can share? Thanks!