Hello everyone. I'm Adam. I joined years ago at first diagnosis but never posted. In Demember of 2016 I had a bleeding mole that wouldn't heal. Derm cut it off and found it to be Melanoma. It was on my upper right chest wall. 2.5mm deep. Diagnosed Stage3c. Went through the WLE which found the sentinel node had a trace amount of melanoma so they went back in and took all of my lymph nodes in my right arm pit. Thankfully no lymphedema. Had 2 rounds of ipi around June/July of 2017 but was taken off due to getting colitis. Was on 6 month scans until last week when on my CT showed 2 small spots (one being 1.5cm and one being 2cm) in my left lower lung and a small spot at 1.5cm on my spleen. Went for MRI this last Tuesday and was supposed to go for a lung biopsy today but the MRI showed 2 small spots so biopsy cancelled as that confirmed it was the melanoma spreading. Right now my oncologist at MSK Basking Ridge in NJ is suggesting radiation to the brain mets and possibly the lung/spleen mets and then start on immunotherapy. My reason for the post is to ask for advice/opinions and seek moral support.